"Women, if you hear someone tell you that complementarity means you have to get married, have dozens of babies, be a stay-at-home housewife, clean toilets, completely forego a career, chuck your brain, tolerate abuse, watch Leave It to Beaver reruns, bury your gifts, deny your personality, and bobble-head nod 'yes' to everything men say, don't believe her. That's a misrepresentation. It's not complementarianism." - Mary Kassian
You can probably count on one hand how many sermons you've heard on gender roles from 1 Timothy 2:11-12 and still have fingers remaining. In the wide array of biblical truths its not as urgent as grasping the Trinity, Jesus' substitutionary death, loving your neighbour, or the priesthood of all believers. But while gender roles in the church and home may not enjoy much time on centre stage, its still an important cast-member. Its a distinctive that shapes how we relate to each other and do ministry, even if we don't talk about it as much as we might need to.
Here's some resources to equip you further...
Complementarianism for Dummies, Mary Kassian (1 page blog post)
The Sticky Points of 1 Timothy 2:11-12, Don Carson (12 min total, 4 videos)
The Original Woman - Genesis 1-3, Claire Smith (50 min audio)
God's Good Design, Claire Smith (230 page book/ebook).- I highly recommended!